Transparency in a parent-kid relationship comes with respect, even more than trust. My father didn't give me an ounce of respect, so I returned the favor. My mother, the actual breadwinner in my family anyway, gave me some - but it came with the offsetting love = invasion of privacy, *shrug*. Who do you think I actually go to when I need to talk?
Even after college graduation, my father remains as naive, stubborn, bitter and as close-minded as he was when I was in high school. My mother never was close-minded, and b/c of that she gets the respects she deserves. Remember that respect is a two-way street. I also had the unique experience of being primarily raised by my mother until high school (father was never home), so you can imagine, again, who I respect more.
Even after college graduation, my father remains as naive, stubborn, bitter and as close-minded as he was when I was in high school. My mother never was close-minded, and b/c of that she gets the respects she deserves. Remember that respect is a two-way street. I also had the unique experience of being primarily raised by my mother until high school (father was never home), so you can imagine, again, who I respect more.