Technoob, I hate to break it to you buddy, but you're not telling him or anyone else anything they don't already know. If everyone acted like you're suggesting, it would be such a different world. This is the internet, he is playing a computer game, not applying for employment. If I were in that server, I'd be the first to say "Nothing wrong with his name, play the game and shut the fuck up", I know where that will take me in that particular server, but just having the balls to back someone up when they're being picked on, will be worth the ban or kick.
Grow up Technoob, I'm not sure if there is a parenting sub-forum here on the [H]ard.
If it's something they already know, then maybe they should not whine about it. Seems the one who should be shutting the fuck up and playing the game is the person whining about admin policies, not the ones enforcing them. If standing up for someone breaking server rules is worth the ban, then get banned, stfu about it, and find a server where you can debate in chat rather than play the fucking game.