Desolate said:its the front of the case, i took the front off away from touching the rest, and when i touch the front nothing happens and when i touch the rest of the case nothihg happens. but when i put the front of the case on the rest of teh case and touch the front its shocks the mobo somehow and restarts. so this shows its neither the psu, or the cord, or the wall outlets
One or more of the many things in the front bezel of your case is grounding out against the metal frame of the case or the metal of the bezel. Remove and/or insulate all exposed metal connections and wires and see if the problem continues. In fact, I would remove everything but the LEDs and case switches from the front bezel and add it back one at at time to see when the problem starts again.
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BTW, the attempts with the bypassing/adding grounding connections were just plain stupid. What if the problem had been in the PSU or the power cable? If it had been a short in either of those it could have fed voltage back into the PSU/case instead of to ground, possibly frying everything inside and/or causing a fire. You could also have been shocked (quite possibly fatally) either by AC 120V (not so bad, usually just hurts like a SOB for a couple of hours) or DC 5-20,000V (hurts like hell and you can't let go once you grab something live with DC normally) had it been a short. All it would have taken was creating a cross body circuit (normally from hand to hand across the heart) at any point and BOOM, dead computer enthusiast.
The lesson here is that when people who work with electricity/electrical things for a living start telling you to STOP DOING SOMETHING DUMB, heed their warning or possibly end up flash fried.